I am afraid I announced my coming back slightly too soon, as it appears I am still struggling with time and not keeping up with posts, either mine or others’. In my defence, I have been very busy, but this time not with the book……well not only with the book…….: I have been busy helping Santa🤶🏻
My house is still a home of believers…..believers in Santa!
To be honest I thought daughter number one would have started to doubt it this year, instead, she didn’t; or at least she had not mentioned it and I assume she still fully believe in the white-bearded presents dispenser and his elves.
Around the first week of December, I usually started to press both the girls to get their mindset on what they want for Christmas.
They always have their ideas pronto, but this year, for some reason, they seemed not to have the usual enthusiasm for something in particular, and for the first time, I had no an idea of what they want either.
The days passed and I started to be tight with time to get organised with the presents, also considering that we are going to Italy for a week before Christmas and, ideally, I would like to have everything sorted before leaving.
One morning, making their beds I noticed on their bedside tables a note for Santa.
“Perfect”, I thought, I took the letters and I went shopping.
When I collected them from school I proudly informed the girls of my initiative to send their Santa’s letters, but after no thank you arrived, I suspected there was something wrong. My suspects became certainty when through the rear mirror of the car I saw daughter number one filling her eyes with tears and daughter number two looking back at me with a murderous look.
In the beginning I couldn’t really understand what the problem was, certainly, it could not be something I did and so, like every conscious mother would have done, I just ignored them. Unfortunately, once home, it was not easy to keep doing that that as the atmosphere in the house was miserable to the highest extent.
“Would you just tell me what’s wrong please?”, I eventually asked.
“Nothing”, the standard answer. In the flood of tears that followed there was nothing standard, and neither were standards all the scary thoughts about what could have possibly happened. “You sent the wrong the letters!”,daughter number two eventually said.
Long story short, those letters I found, have been written before they decided to join forces and ask Santa only one present for both of them.
Our rules are simple, Santa doesn’t bring living presents, (like puppies or pets of any sort) and neither he brings very expensive gifts, (because Santa delivers in any household but not any household has the same economic resources. Big presents, if they can afford them, must come from parents or grandparents not from Santa because the same Santa might have not been able to satisfy the request of some other less fortunate kid).
Now, back to my kids Santa’s letter, they both would like a new video game console. The game is apparently believed to be too expensive as an individual, but if asked as a combined present for both of them, (as they can play with it together),it would fit Santa’ budget and rules. In fairness, their logic did make sense. I had screwed up and even if they said it was ok and they could always ask it for their birthdays, I kept feeling bad and guilty. Not to mention that this combine birthday present idea is not really doable as one was born in June and the other in November; unless ,of course, one would have a very early gift and the other a very late one.
That evening, when I went to kiss them goodnight, I suggested that the following morning, I might have tried to retrieve the letters if they were still at the post office. No promise was done but at least they went to bed a bit more serene….and me too. The traveling husband, in his pragmatism, simply suggested to leave it because, “they will get over it. it is not that they are not getting any present !”, he said. True indeed, harsh but true.
Nearly convinced to leave things as they were on my way to bed, I noticed some letters sticking out their fairies letterboxes. Each fairy had been informed of my screw up and asked to keep her fingers crossed for me to be able to get the letters back.
I totally melted and the following morning I simply span around myself transforming “mama fairy” in “wonder mama”. By school pick up time I had the right so desired gift safely wrapped and hidden at the bottom of my wardrobe and the rest returned and refunded. Mission accomplished
Happy to have fixed my mess I had now a dilemma to face: “To tell or not to tell the girls?”. Will I leave them in their misery until Christmas Eve or will I just say I got the letters back? Undoubtedly a hard decision to take, but in the end, I decided to be graceful and when they asked me if I managed to get their letters back I simply told them the “truth”:
“You know what ? when I got to the post office the bag with the letters had just left for the deposit so there I went, only to find out it was not the right deposit. That kind of post goes to the deposit in Dublin and so I drove nearly into town to the main post service hub. Of course, to get there in time I had to speed across the motorway and a police patrol stopped me to give me a fine but, thankfully, when I told them why I was speeding they offered to escort me to get there quicker. Well, girls, I won’t hide it was a bit of a challenge and it did take me all morning but look what I have here!”, and with a big smile, I took the two Santa’s letters out of my pockets, where they actually were since the day I decided to be Christmas shopping proactive.
I don’t know for how long I will still be able to fool them like that but their pleasantly bewildered faces were priceless.
Even more priceless, it was their sense of gratitude that followed, and while they have been busy slaving away around the house for the rest of the afternoon, I had to enjoy a few hours of reading, sipping tea and eating biscuits. After all, all that driving and chasing left me exhausted. 😉💁🏻♀️
It so clear that your kids make you happy, Ortensia. And that they have been nice for the year and deserving of what Santa has to give them. Happy Hollidays. 😎🎅🏻
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They are quite good I must say and usually not spoiled so …I suppose they deserved this😀just hope I have been as good too for my Santa😉
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i’m sure. 🎅🏻🎅🏻
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You have very good Santa rules! And another lovely story to tell!
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You’re not the only one that hasn’t been able to keep up with WordPress I’ve been quite busy myself. Since you’re close with O’l saint Nick please tell him I’ve been good this year and id like to retire early, but if that isn’t feasible I’ll take penut butter and Fetta cheese for Christmas .
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I think peanut butter and cheese are right in budget for him….and if you really have behaved I’m sure he can add some crackers too😉
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Perfect Mum!
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Lol,mmmm,I’m not sure about that but you get what you and don’t get upset ,right?😉😂
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I wish my son still believed but that’s been over for years now. You did awesome at telling them the story of getting those letters back!
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Lol,I must say I struggled to not laugh a little😉
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Oh I’m sure! You did well though! 😀
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So sweet. 🎅🎅🎅😉
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Thank you dear☺️
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LOL!!
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Aah, how lovely! And how nice that they joined forces to get a shared present! 🙂
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I kind of felt to spoil them a little but at the end they deserved it ,at least because they actually learned that “sharing is caring” ,or “ gaining “ in this case😉thanks for stopping by and I’ll catch up,don’t worry❤️
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Aww that was lovely 😊
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😘
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These moments are priceless! I love this ☺
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Thanks🤶🏻
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Love! ❤❤
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Great job Mum!
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Lol….thank you now I hope I can eventually go back on that chair and catch up with wp….before going to italy and spend all my energy to survive the battle of the grandmothers😬😂
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Is it any wonder you are exhausted!
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Mmmm🤔🙄let me think…😂😂😂😂
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You’re a perfect Mum Ortensia. I think I’d have just told them to shut up and accept what they’re given (if anything) 🙂 You did good.
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Lol,far from perfect ,and I kind of felt to spoil them a little but in fairness it was my mess🙄thanks for stopping by😀
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Wow! That was awesome! I’m glad you did that. At least no more tears and sadness. plus 2 happy girls at home.
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And a much lighter wallet😂😂😂😂
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😂😂😂😂😂😆😆 true!!
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Amazingly sweet story. I’m surprised they still believe in Santa Claus. Go mama!
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Well one is 9 and the other just turn 12 ….. I suppose it won’t be for long…but in the meanwhile……🤶🏻😉
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You never cease to amaze me-what a good mom-I hope Santa is good to you too!
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He better be😉but you know….something the appearance is misleading….I usually don’t write when I miserably fail as a mother🙄
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you did not fail! You acted heroically in fact!
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😘merry Christmas dear🎄
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Thank you-I am quite behind, so now I send best wishes for your new year.Looking forward to your accounts! love Michele
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Ortensia, your work is mesmerizingly beautiful!
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As usual you are far too generous with your words but thank you so much☺️
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You’re sincerely welcome, ortensia!
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☺️
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🎅 is real!
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Of course it is🤓
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You are such a wonderful mom, Ortensia. It’s honestly heart-warming.
Bless you and your family.
Hope you all have a wonderful and merry Christmas and a fantastic new year ❤❤.
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You too my dear friend.❤️
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Lol,I’m afraid I’m not as wonderful as I think as someone is complaining just right now about my being too strict🤣
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Well, being strict at times helps. There’s a moderation required in everything and you’re smart enough to figure out the balance on your own 😎😎
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I hope they believe in Santa a couple more years; it goes by so fast. Happy Holiday! 🙂
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Me too☺️happy holidays to you dear😊❤️
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I hope you get a picture of their faces when they open up that gift. What a great story!
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I also put it in a bigger box so they won’t spot immediately what it is😉
Have a great holidays my dear and a special wooffy slobbery kiss from Clara and Kurt to Walter ❤️🎄🐶
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Wonderful holiday greetings and Walter sends back big old sloppy kisses, too. AND you get purrs from our new kittens. They are very sweet.
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You have kittens????im so jealous it’s been years we try to get cats but unfortunately the traveling husband doesn’t like them😡but I haven’t given up yet😎😻
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You could always get some while the traveling husband is…traveling! 😉
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We tried a couple of times but cats were adult and god old Clara didn’t take it well……..next feline arrival mustb careful planned😎😻in the meanwhile let’s see what foster dog the new year will bring as my forced foster break is ending soon😀😀😀😀
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I want mamma like this…& I want Santa like this…& sigh, a game too 😉
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Lol,move over our guest room for next Christmas…..😉😂🎁🎄
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I’m too noisy guest 🙂 & probably more hypochondriac than your daughter 😅
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Oh dear.I will let you sleep together then😂🤒
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🤪😂😂
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Your girls are happy to have a mum like you. Wishing you merry Christmas and a happy New Year ❤
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And back to you my dear🎄❤️
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It’s not all gold the mom who sparkle🤣🤣🤣🤣I have my mean moments😜
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All the best mums do😊
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As a child, I was a Santa spoiler, telling other children that Santa does not exist. I knew someone who was 10 years old and still believed.
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Oh no😱but at least some of your victim didn’t fall for the ugly true😂have a great day dear
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All the action related in this story would certainly make a great plot line for a Hollywood blockbuster Christmas movie. 😂
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Here you go…….what are you waiting for……..send your script🍿🎬
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Great post ! I like that you have rules and teach lessons of gratitude 🙂
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Kids need rules and they need to be taught gratitude and compassion in this scary world🤓
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Gotta keep the kids happy at Christmas. 😀
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Yep😂
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